The greater our awareness of Others, the greater the burden of responsibility we have, knowing how to act on that awareness. Sometimes, it appears obvious to us where others are going wrong, it is so clear why certain events happen to them, why they keep making the same mistakes, again and again. The responsibility comes from knowing what to do about it.

With children, you know the things that they have yet to experience. You know that if they put their hand in the fire, they will get burnt. There is a fine balance in trying to get them to understand about life through their own experiences and preventing them from getting badly hurt in the process. You can’t ride their bike for them, they have to fall off to learn about balance. When they fall over, you help pick them up. After a while they should learn what to do or not to do – but sometimes they don’t learn and won’t be told either.

When we can see so clearly what others can’t, then it becomes obvious that we ourselves must be the same. We must have habits and opinions and beliefs that others disagree with or can’t understand why we maintain them. We start to realise that we are just as ‘different’ as they are – in fact based on achieving greater awareness, probably more so.

Our role is to deal with what is happening in our own life, to gain our own understanding of our place within this world. There is no requirement for us to take on the responsibility of Others unless we choose to do so. Life can be difficult enough without having to take on the worries and concerns of those around us as well. So how do we know when we are helping or interfering with another.

The definition of Selfish – to take action purely in the interests of Self without consideration of another.
The definition of Sacrifice – to forfeit something of value in consideration of another having greater claim to its value.
The definition of Mutual – the process of giving and receiving by both parties
The definition of Consideration is ‘to give careful thought regarding something of mutual value to both parties’.

So we should look firstly to give prior consideration whether our actions will result in a mutual exchange of energies. Will the action taken result in beneficial advancement for all involved or will it cause upset, interference and anger? We cannot always know what will be the result.

Based on this, we can start to step back from trying to change the way that Others are. We can allow them to ‘be’ their own unique expressions of Spirit for they are on their own path with their own set of lessons to learn. Maybe some of their own learned traits and qualities are necessary to help them with their own unique journey – wherever that takes them.

We must firstly examine ALL that we are, to question all of our beliefs, ALL of our fixed patterns of behaviour and understanding. Only then will we be in a position to see why Others are the way that they are and that it is OK for them to be that way. We will continue to change our own likes and dislikes as the Law of Attraction continues to act in accordance with our own focused attention along the Ascension Path.

All the Events in our life that have involved Others, have taken place as a result of a prior Soul Contract agreed at the Highest levels of Love. We have come through each Event having been exposed to the energetic Cause and Effect they provided. It is now time to integrate all that we have learnt as a result of our exposure to the conditions of emotional influence and mental projection. Accumulated Wisdom from the Lessons of Human Experience.

Indeed, we are all the end result of all the choices we have ever made. That is what makes us unique and that is what makes each of YOU so special.

With Loving Blessings <3

Paul Dobree – Carey / Polaris AB
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